Others
may wonder why there are people who can control themselves in the temptation of
pre-marital sex while others could not.
But if we’ll look at it, we’re born with the same capacity and size of
heart, mind and conscience. Does it mean
that we’re just stubborn and selective to listen on certain values that
regulate and confront our comfort zone or are we just being blinded by the
environmental influences, or is it both?
Nonetheless,
the bottom-line of which is, if these people who are soaked up in the material
world could remain chaste, then transformation toward the same values for
the rest of us is feasible.
Discord
may be expected like, “This one is hypocrisy as there are personalities among
these stars who are into films with nudity and eroticism. How could you encourage people to be chaste
when you’re advocating films that titillate the minds of the viewers not to be
chaste?” To such an extent, the
Scripture clearly says, "Whoever causes one of these little ones who
believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to have a great millstone hung
around his neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea." (Matthew 18:6). Therefore one’s chastity would be pointless
if he/she’s investing her physical faculty in any forms of media that enchants
the viewers to re-enact eroticism that they have seen, as the Scripture says, “A good
person brings forth good out of a store of goodness, but an evil person brings
forth evil out of a store of evil. (Matthew 12:35) .
In a research, it discloses that sex on TV shows and movies influence kids to have sex when they are too young. Conversely, it’s very
inspiring to know that a porn star like Matt Frad affirms that such choice is a diabolical counterfeit for love.
Dopamine, hoxytocin and vasopressin are three powerful and important products released during sex
between a man and a woman in a committed relationship and help couples bond. These cause great trouble if instituted in casual sexual
relationships.
Functioning
collectively, the two hormones and one chemical produced by the human body in
the course of sexual contacts facilitate to bond a man and a woman mutually for
long-term relationship.
Dopamine which is copiously produced by the brain is a powerful
chemical released during intimacy, which is compared to heroin on the
brain. That is why if one is sexually
involved it brews him/her to repeat the act. Dopamine is human’s internal pleasure/reward
system, which changes how human remembers when it is involved.
Oxytocin is a hormone produced primarily in women's bodies which
helps girls become bonded to the object of her affection. A woman who is
breastfeeding produces lots of Oxytocin, which bonds her to her child. That is
why mothers fight for their children over their dead body because of these
emotions bond developed through Oxytocin that is released through skin-to-skin
contact with the child.
Similarly
when a girl becomes intimate with a guy, her body also
releases Oxytocin turning her to be emotionally bonded with him. That is why we
could find women (my aunt is a classic example of this) who have the power to
remain with her husband even she’s domestically abused, because she bonds with
him emotionally.
Vasopressin which is called as monogamy hormone is produced by men,
which serves the same purpose as Oxytocin, bonding a man to a woman.
These bonding agents are wonderful for marriage relationships but
they don't work perfectly for dating relationships evidently because the
concerned loses her/his impartiality when searching for a potential life mate. In short, the
process is pre-emptied because of jumping from one process to the next – the
getting-to-know process before ending up in a commitment. That is why there are marriages which don’t
work out well because of this negligence.
According
to neuropsychologist Dr. Tim Jennings, when one is into premarital sex, his/her reward circuitry is bonded
to them yet. That is why frequently, the people who have been sexually active
during breakups can't tolerate the sense of emptiness, so they haste into
another relationship. The neuro circuits
did not have time to reset, which impair their ability to bond with the next
person, which may end up in the same cycle of pre-marital sex and continuing
bonding harms.
There is often disappointment and regret at lost virginity. Losing something that's valuable is always followed by a remorse like, “I wish I had waited.”
One may not notice it but
the evil spirit attacks human’s sexuality by inducing pre-marital sex as this
hampers human bonding. God wires and
designs human brain not for pre-mature releases of dopamine, oxytocin,
vasopressin but for a particular hale and hearty function – to bond with the person
that one marries.
At best, among those who are sexually active, one in six condoms
will fail, and at worst one in three. That’s the same or worse odds as in blow to the moon, which is an unintelligent game. Aside from whcih, the pill offers
no protection whatsoever against STDs.
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