Frank Maloney who’s the man behind the stardom of Britain’s former world heavyweight champion
Lennox Lewis undergoes a sex change and living as a woman under the name
Kellie.
The 61-year old
champ-maker who’s into the 2004 London Mayoralty candidate and has been married
twice with two daughters told the media, “I was born in the wrong body and I
have always known I was a woman. I can’t keep living in the shadows; that is
why I am doing what I am today. Living with the burden any longer would have
killed me. What was wrong at birth is now being medically corrected. I have a
female brain. I knew I was different from the minute I could compare myself to
other children. I wasn’t in the right body. I was jealous of girls.”
Let’s take some
sort of dissecting the issue with a heart and without prejudice and
discrimination. In the first place, his
sexuality issue is the same with that of mine.
The only difference is he’s already exhausted of repairing the sexual
orientation which has been deceiving his mind since the beginning until now,
while I’ve been enduring the challenge to cope with it.
Transgendering
can never resolve a problem that has been concealed for long years by entering
into another new world of a masked life.
“Be true to
yourself” is basically the encouraging thought a homosexual could hear when he
is noticed by his comrades struggling of sexual identity crisis. However, going
into a sex change is but another deeper of a masked life than being true to
oneself.
Homosexuality
issue does not differ when compared with a straight guy’s struggle on
extra-marital affairs or pre-marital sex.
If homosexual problem is addressed by transgendering to optimize its
fulfillment of desire to be like a woman (or man in the case of lesbianism),
sexual relationship, movements and choices as a whole, might as well that man’s
escapade of pairing in a one-night stand or pre-marital sex can be a valid
excuse, if we would just allow ourselves to be carried away by the “concept of
escapism”. Let us establish that both
practices are opposing the natural union as ultimate source of human’s endless
generation which is against God’s nature.
1 Timothy 1:8-10 We
know that the law is good, provided that one uses it as law, with the
understanding that law is meant not for a righteous person but for the lawless
and unruly, the godless and sinful, the unholy and profane, those who kill
their fathers or mothers, murderers, the unchaste, practicing homosexuals, 5
kidnapers, liars, perjurers, and whatever else is opposed to sound teaching,
It’s unnatural because both destroy the pre-conceived concept that God has perfectly patterned to preserve the sanctity of life.
Could you
imagine what type of authority can a father teaches to a sibling who’s into
pre-marital sex which defocuses the teen’s attention on building his ambition,
if he himself is involved in the same interest?
Can you blame the child when he bombards his own father with
disrespectful expression like, “Dad, how can you be a responsible father to us
if you are spending beyond your means because of your extra families!”
Romans 1:24-27 Therefore, God handed them over to impurity through the lusts of their hearts
for the mutual degradation of their bodies. They exchanged the truth of God for
a lie and revered and worshiped the creature rather than the creator, who is
blessed forever. Amen. Therefore, God handed them over to degrading passions.
Their females exchanged natural relations for unnatural, and the males likewise
gave up natural relations with females and burned with lust for one another.
Males did shameful things with males and thus received in their own persons the
due penalty for their perversity.
Or, what type of
values a homosexual parent can articulate to a surrogate child if at one point
the latter exhibits early tendencies of homosexuality? Do you think the former
would make an extra effort of corrective measure to discipline the child on a
major consideration that he has not been able to conquer the challenge of
preserving the gift of masculinity?
Julius Francis,
former heavyweight boxing champion has
described Frank Maloney's decision as bravery.
Personally, I don’t take it as a gallantry because he stops there to
fight for his sexual issues than repairing it. If a straight guy can repair his
tendencies on womanizing, then a homosexual can also be hopeful of repairing
its tendencies to be attracted to a woman’s choice? Addressing life’s struggle whether it’s
sexually, financially, emotionally, spiritually, or socially is not a one-day
challenge but a lifetime battle. There
are days of failure but there are also days of triumph. What matters after a failure in any of these
aspects is we can stand and start from the bottom again until we finally
perfect each issue in each aspect of life.
In the United States, millions of
children have lesbian, gay, bisexual and/or transgender (LGBT) parents.
Based on research, children with a
parent in a same-sex relationship "underperform" in almost every sort. Less
than 2 percent of children from unbroken, biological families reported experiencing
sexual abuse of some nature, but that number for children of same-sex union is
23 percent. 14 percent of children from same-sex couples have spent some time
in foster care, versus around 2 percent of the American population at large.
Arrest, drug experimentation, and unemployment rates were all elevated among
children from same-sex couples. This is why God says that homosexual cannot enter
God’s kingdom. God’s kingdom can be equated to man’s happiness and joy.
1 Corinthian 6:10 Do
you not know that the unjust will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be
deceived; neither fornicators nor idolaters nor adulterers nor boy prostitutes
nor practicing homosexuals nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor
slanderers nor robbers will inherit the kingdom of God.
There has been a high rate of divorce among gays which
itself suggests that same-sex households is not a model of stability.
As a major consideration, this blog is created not to
suppress homosexual freedom, to tell the LGTB community to return from transgendered
to their former sexual structure which is impossible because the operation has
already been made. But may this serve as a reminder that escaping from the real issue without healing the bottom-line
of the problem is like taking a sleeping capsule which allows one to sleep
temporarily to forget the tight spot momentarily but when one wakes up, the
problem is still there.
Everyone’s challenge in this life is to repair the
brokenness of the past brought by environmental influence, wrong formation, choice
of insignificant others but not to run away from it. Straight men face the
reality that man is vulnerable to a sexual temptation but they’re also
continuously facing the responsibility of controlling themselves than to slip
away with different women in different places because of its detrimental life’s
effect. On the other hand, homosexual also should confront the same reality
that its susceptibility lies on desire of woman’s choices but are likewise
challenged to stand in front and be on top of that desire than to experiment
many alternatives that can be equaled to a woman’s freedom which poses
different faces of unhealthy effects (Genesis 19:1-29) to a “concept” of a
healthy life, natural family, nourished community and nurtured society.
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