Just this week, somebody posted on Facebook relating about his struggle with masturbation and pornography. I’ll conceal his identity in respect of his privacy. His actual post says like this:
Sixth
commandment says,” Do not commit adultery,” which is affirmed in the
New Testament, “But I say to you, everyone who looks at a woman with lust has
already committed adultery with her in his heart.” (Matthew 5:28)
Some
people may have been evasive when talking about masturbation as others find it as
taboo but remember that the concept of this word could even be found in the
Scripture, particularly with forbidden acts as stated in the opening statement
(the two preceding verses) which serves as a caution. If we’ll try to dig deeply on this, this
covers masturbation because in the process, anyone who after hearing from neighbor
who does it (personally that’s how I started as I reached my 4th
year high school), after watching pornography on the web, or after noticing
teens who enter a motel, or come across with partners who are kissing in the
public, the mind naturally reacts to either emulate that encounter, and the
outlet would be masturbation.
In 1993 The Janus report New York , of the women who took part in national survey,
89% of them had reported masturbated at some time while 95% of men admitted to
masturbating at least once.
In
a separate survey in the United States, by the age of 16-17 over half of males
and about a quarter of females admitted they masturbated at least once in the
past month. According to the research, masturbation is most common for both men
and women in the 25-29 age groups. At ages 25-29 just over two thirds of males
and just over half of females masturbated at least once in the past month. Many
people in their 50’s, 60’s and 70’s masturbate at least occasionally.
In
a research, it says that masturbating to ejaculation can cause temporary
negative side effects in the brain. Brain is the most important organ of the
body and if someone experiences these effects after each ejaculation yet
masturbates to ejaculation every day, a temporary effect can become quite
unsafe.
Both
pleasure and pain take place in the brain. If one masturbates without a brain
one will get no pleasure and if one burns his hand on a hot stove without a
brain one will feel no pain. As pleasure is subjective so is the pain.
Based
on disclosure, doctors, counselors, psychiatrists, and other health
professionals often receive complaints of negative side effects that people get
from masturbation, as follow:
Excessive masturbation affects brain differently than
having actual sex
Having
sex with a woman supposedly affects the brain in a different way than
when alone and masturbating. It has negative side effects on the brain, body, and behavior that affect one’s results not only with women and dating but with everything else that one does daily.
Oxytocin
is commonly called the “love hormone” or “cuddle hormone” which plays an
important part in intimacy between two people. It is thought to be released
during bonding – hugging, touching, and orgasm in both sexes. In the brain,
oxytocin is involved in social recognition and bonding, and may be involved in
the formation of trust between people and generosity. It is released into
the brain four (4) times as much when having sex than masturbating.
Researchers
once assumed that biomakers are no different during solo sex than they are during intercourse, which are
refuted by Doctors Stuart Brody and Tillman Kruger telling that orgasm during intercourse
releases four times more Prolactin than masturbation.
Since Oxytocin appears to trigger the release of Prolactin, it’s quite possible
that Oxytocin released by intimacy accounts for the higher Prolactin levels
during intercourse.”
Prolactin was
once thought to only be found in females to trigger breast milk production
and all that, but not only is it found in males, it is essential to their
sexual health.
The
hormone Prolactin makes one feel satiated by countering the effect of Dopamine,
which is released during sexual arousal.
Masturbation affects the brain differently than having
sex.
Brain
scans have been conducted on those with porn and masturbation addictions and
the reward centers of the brain are actually changed.
Scientists
believed that human brains were fixed, their circuits formed and finalized
in childhood, or “hardwired”. The
brain is "neuroplastic", and not only can it change, but works by changing its structure in response
to recurring mental experience.
The
neuroplasticity talks about pathways in human brain that are literally formed
through persistent behavior. When the behavior discontinues for a long enough
period of time, the pathway seems to reduce or fade.
Dr. Marty Klein discloses that when sex addicts are involved in sex (for example, when watching
pornography), the part of their brain that lights up (the mesolimbic pathway)
is the same part that lights up when a heroin addict injects heroin.
Research
finds out that when someone is doing drugs or addicted to drugs, almost the
exact same parts of their brain are being affected as someone who’s
masturbating.
Excessive masturbation (& Porn) affects the dopamine
levels in brain which leads to addiction
Dopamine
is a neurotransmitter (a chemical released by nerve cells to send signals to
other nerve cells) and it plays a huge role in the part of human brain that
is responsible for reward-motivated behavior.
Masturbation is a form of a reward-motivated behavior
because one is rewarded at the end.
Taking drugs, gambling, eating, having sex, and seeking
approval are examples of other
reward-motivated behaviors that cause dopamine to flood one’s brain.
Dopamine floods the brain and makes one feel REALLY GOOD when doing these.
It’s like giving the brain a giant piece of candy especially masturbation.
Thus,
many turn to be addicted on masturbation because just like drugs, the more one
masturbates, the more the brain becomes “used to” and benumbed to the effects
of Dopamine and the more one needs/craves just to “get off” and keep that
wonderful feeling flooding back.
Dopamine
is the “go get it” neurochemical essential for libido, risk-taking, stimulus,
concentration, and expectation and excitement. In other words, a drop in dopamine
signaling is associated with weakened libido which is a possible cause of
sluggish erections,
reduced risk-taking and increased apprehension, combined with a tendency toward
angry overreaction. Any of which dwindles
eagerness to commune, inability to focus, which can account for concentration
and memory problems, and lack of stimulus and healthy anticipation, which can
lead to laziness, delay, and even play a role in depression. Conversely, when
dopamine and related neurochemicals are suitably in harmony, feelings of well
being are more graceful from sexual attraction, socializing, to concentration
focus.
Excessive masturbation kills dopamine receptors
Given
that addictive behavior and too much of anything overstimulates human brain
and desensitizes the brain to the effects of Dopamine, it leads to
something called “downregulation” of the Dopamine Receptors.
Dopamine Receptors
are the “sensors” in human brain when Dopamine is released. They
“detect” the Dopamine that makes human feel really good.
Over stimulation, or excessive masturbation causes these
“sensors” to be overworked than functioning their job as good as they used to. They become “numb” and less sensitive and receptive to
dopamine, also known as “desensitization”.
Once
human become “desensitized”, only the addictive behavior gets him off or “hits
the spot”, which only gets worse in the long run. When one keeps on masturbating and pounding
these dopamine receptors over and over to try to get them to have life and feel
something, they start dying off. The more human kills these dopamine
recepctor, the crazier and more addictive one’s behavior can get.
Excessive masturbation kills interest in daily normal
stuff
It
can lose interest in having sex with women. Some guys are so addicted to
masturbation turning them not be interested anymore with their wife. Since
masturbation is the only thing that gets them off, they would rather sit and
masturbate to images and videos of women than with an actual woman. A lot of
marriages have end up in separation because of this.
Likewise,
this loses interest in things like academic success, achieving things in
life, and reaching goals. (I can attest on this because starting from grade five to high school I've been a consisten honor student, but this fall off starting
on my fourth year until college because of concentration that dwindles).
One
can be left feeling “all used up” and uncreative
Since human brain theoretically only creates so much
Dopamine, using it all up on excessive masturbating to fulfill brain’s craving
for pleasure and satisfaction can leave feeling “all used up” and feeling
worthless.
Dr. N.K Lin an
expert in sexual health and therapy says that since dopamine is the
precursor to the stress hormone epinephrine (adrenaline), excess dopamine
results in the adrenal glands overproducing epinephrine and putting the
body in a prolonged state of fight-or-flight stress. At the same time, norepinephrine is synthesized from dopamine and released
from the adrenal medulla into the blood as a hormone, along with the stress
hormone cortisol. Epinephrine, norepinephrine and cortisol fuel the fight-or-flight
response, directly increasing heart rate, triggering the release of glucose
from energy stores, and increasing blood flow to skeletal muscle. All of these
have a severely taxing effect on the body.”
This taxing effect on human body makes one feel
unmotivated, tired, depressed, and full of anxiety. Human brain goes through a lot during periods of
excessive masturbation and feel worn out after. One is left not wanting to do
anything productive and many just want to sleep all day than the feeling of a
real winner.
Excessive masturbation can make one feel like a loser
A
few minutes after ejaculation, one feels like a loser sitting beside for
committing such. No one would feel embarrassed after being caught if he
feels like a winner on such commission.
Masturbation can make one feel like a loser because of
doing this thing that intended for couple but not alone.
Excessive masturbation can create strong feelings of guilt
or shame
99.9%
of men are aware that masturbation is something that is done not in front of
other people for fear of them thinking as a loser, or a weird pervert.
For those who are out of control with masturbation habit,
it’s always in the subconscious. It’s like being locked in a jail cell of guilt
and paranoia that stalks.
Out of Control Masturbating Can Kill Your Interest In
Being Social
When
meeting and dating with women, or simply interact with people that one likes,
the brain releases Dopamine leaving the feeling of a sense of pleasure.
If one unintentionally desensitize one’s brain and
Dopamine Receptors to the effects of Dopamine by chronic masturbating, then one
might find being social, making friends, having conversations, and meeting
women to be boring, uninteresting, unrewarding, and just end up staying at home all day
-masturbating. “Watch your thoughts, they become
words. Watch your words, they become
actions. Watch your actions, they become
habit. Watch your habits, they become
your character. Watch your character,
they become your destiny.” - Lao Tzu
One experiences less satisfaction from the small
things in life
The brain releases dopamine throughout one’s entire day.Strolling,
trekking, playing sports, or doing anything enjoyable causes the brain to
release Dopamine so human can enjoy those activities. If Dopamine
receptors are weaken/dead and cannot sense normal levels of Dopamine, one
cannot find as much fulfillment in doing ordinary things that make people happy
but find them dull, boring and unrewarding.
Testosterone
plays a key role in the development of male reproductive tissues like testis
and prostate, promotes secondary sexual characteristics such as increased
muscle, bone mass, and the growth of body hair. It is essential for health and
well-being and prevention of osteoporosis. FURTHER, it is very significant in
sexual functioning.
Conversely,
a research in 1992 discloses about examination of four couples on days that
they did and didn’t have sexual activity. Based on finding, testosterone
levels increased on nights after sexual activity and did not on nights where
there was no intercourse.
In
2003, a Case Study unveils about a study on the effects on males in abstaining
from masturbation and testosterone levels. Based on output, testosterone
levels amplified gradually between days 1 through 5 when abstaining from
ejaculation. On days six and seven, the testosterone levels saw a huge spike of
up to 147% increase in body testosterone levels. The testosterone levels
returned to normal after day 7.
Testosterone is
needed for energy, memory, concentration, self-esteem, self-control, lean
muscle tissue, strength, physical stamina, depth and bass in voice, composure,
masculine behaviour, dominant behaviour, red blood cell production, bone
density and strength by producing blood cells in bone marrow and bone
formation, protein necessary for NORMAL SEXUAL BEHAVIOR – a healthy sex drive,
producing hard erections, a healthy metabolism – burning fat, liver function,
prostate health.
I am blessed in a special way by the contents of the above write-up pregnant with biblical truths.
ReplyDeleteGod bless the writer(s) and the readers.
Amen.
- Omar
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Omar, to God be the glory for this new grace that abounds. Thanks for dropping by and may God bless you, together with your entire family.
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